Recently, I’ve dreaded “wash day” more than ever. That’s the day when I wash my hair. The reason I’ve dreaded it more lately is because of the time it takes. After going to school full-time, working and doing the many other things I do on a weekly basis, the thought of washing, conditioning, deep conditioning, detangling, moisturizing and styling my hair is a little unnerving.
So, I’ve been waiting about 3 weeks between washes (usually I wash my hair once/week)! Lately, in between washes, my scalp has been a little itchy. Because I’m not cleansing/moisturizing my hair & scalp as often, both are pretty dry. But, instead of washing my hair to soothe the scalp and stop the itch, I’ve been using oils on my scalp just to stop the itch. The itch stops but sooner or later, it comes back. The oil is only a temporary solutions. But, guess what I do? I put more oil on my scalp! After a while, I have oily, dirty hair with an itchy scalp....a mess!! Nothing will truly soothe the scalp and ease the itch like going through the process of “wash day.”
As I stood in church this morning, I thought about how wonderful God is...and then my scalp started to itch! lol At this very moment, I thought to myself, “It’s time to wash your hair Margaret. Just wash your hair and it will stop the itch.” Then, I was reminded that sometimes, in our lives, we go through things unnecessarily, because we are avoiding the process that will make it better. We know what to do, but for whatever reason, we cannot get motivated to “wash our hair” (whatever that means for you). Instead, we keep trying to resolve the problem with temporary solutions. When we finally realize that the only way to resolve the problem is to take the right action, we still try to apply temporary solutions. But, at the point of consciousness, we should take action. I've heard that when we know better, we do better. But, that's not always the case. Even though it's easier said than done, in order to get results and be where we want to be, we have to go through the process. Because at some point, you get tired of scratching your head!!!
Embracing New Growth,